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		<title>Happy Birthday Little Dictator</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole&#8221; ~ Roger Caras Caesar, the little dictator, turns 4 today.  Or 28 in dog years, which is disconcerting because this now makes him the wisest oldest one in the house.  I&#8217;m assuming he&#8217;s known this for a long time and has just been [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1160&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole&#8221; ~ Roger Caras</p>
<p><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/caesar1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1180" title="Caesar" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/caesar1.jpg?w=300&#038;h=199" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a><a href="http://jayewalking.com/2010/03/05/with-a-name-like-caesar-he-was-destined-for-greatness/">Caesar</a>, the little dictator, turns 4 today.  Or 28 in dog years, which is disconcerting because this now makes him the <span style="color:#000000;"><del>wisest</del> </span>oldest one in the house.  I&#8217;m assuming he&#8217;s known this for a long time and has just been waiting for this day when us humans would be forced to resign to the fact that Caesar knows best.</p>
<p>As he grows older, I often wonder if C$ is a little too smart for his own good.  I swear that every time I ask him to sit, stay, or lay down, the wheels in his little canine head start turning as he ponders, &#8220;if I do, what will I get out of this.&#8221;  However, if cheese, onion, peanut butter or salami is involved, his little butt is glued to the ground just waiting for a piece to come over his way. I&#8217;m not sure whether I&#8217;m more concerned about what this says about my eating habits or about his listening skills.  So if Caes was asked to impart some of his wisdom, now that he&#8217;s the eldest of the pack, I&#8217;m convinced he&#8217;d have this to say:</p>
<p><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/007.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1185" title="007" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/007.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>1.  Help out with homework, specifically, when your human is highlighting for law school.  The best thing to do is try to take the highlighter out of their hands and run with them.</p>
<p>2.  Fetch is much more fun if you have the humans throw it and then you just look at them so they go get the ball.  So much less work when they bring it back for you.</p>
<p>3.  The Dog Whisperer is the best show ever.  When its on, drop everything else to watch and listen.  It&#8217;s like dog yoga&#8230;calm submissive state.</p>
<p>4.  When running your human, keep them on their toes. And above all, if you see a squirrel, chase it.</p>
<p>5.  Take over the couch, humans like that.</p>
<p><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/photo2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1194" title="photo" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/photo2.jpg?w=300&#038;h=300" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>6.  Take over the bed, they like that even more.</p>
<p>7.  Eat the same thing everyday.  No surprises.</p>
<p>8.  Don&#8217;t wear clothes, and don&#8217;t ever wear halloween costumes. A simple yet stylish collar will do just fine.</p>
<p>9.  Only listen enough to let the humans believe they call the shots.</p>
<p>10.  Eat more peanut butter, it&#8217;s good for your health.</p>
<p>Happy Birthday Monkey.</p>
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		<title>E-V-O-L-V-E</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 09:16:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;If you gettin off track and you wanna get back It may take a lot of work won’t break your back If you wanna revolution the only solution Evolve, gotta evolve&#8221; ~Evolve, Kevin Quinn It is now February 20. This is significant because now, I can tell you that I am running again without fearing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1077&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">&#8220;If you gettin off track and you wanna get back<br />
It may take a lot of work won’t break your back<br />
If you wanna revolution the only solution<br />
Evolve, gotta evolve&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">~Evolve, Kevin Quinn</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/55309901643246518_ptoxxc8d_c.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1139" title="55309901643246518_pToXxc8D_c" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/55309901643246518_ptoxxc8d_c.jpg?w=239&#038;h=300" alt="" width="239" height="300" /></a>It is now February 20.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">This is significant because now, I can tell you that I am running again without fearing   the pressure of a New Year&#8217;s resolution and its ultimate demise.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Since law school, running and I have had an on and off again love hate relationship.  This was most likely my fault because more often than not, I simply neglected it.   Then on those warm spring mornings or cool fall nights when I would feel a pang of guilt and try to reunite, it would lash out like a scorned lover, leaving me scarred for days.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">But no matter how much it hurt, I missed it.  I just didn&#8217;t know how to win it back, quite frankly I didn&#8217;t think I had the time to win it back.  So, instead of committing, I played the field.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Then over Christmas break, a friend texted me and asked how I felt about being part of a <a href="http://www.flyingpigmarathon.com/race_information/schedule/relayevent.shtml" target="_blank">Flying Pig marathon relay team</a>.  There are 4 legs and each person runs anywhere from 5-7 miles each, totaling 26.2.  At first I was hesitant since last time I trained to run 26.2 at the Flying Pig my plans were <a href="http://jayewalking.com/2010/04/28/change-of-plans/" target="_blank">disastrously derailed</a>, but then I thought, &#8220;this might be exactly what my relationship with running needs.&#8221;  &#8221;Yes,&#8221; I texted back. &#8220;Count me in.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Over break, I knew that when I got back to school I wanted to make running a priority.  Not only would it be a good time to start with a wedding coming up in the new year, but I missed being in shape.  But like before, I was hesitant, not sure if I could keep my promise.  This was just the push I needed.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/6a0133f1fdf2a0970b0147e26d5ae6970b-800wi.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1151 alignright" title="6a0133f1fdf2a0970b0147e26d5ae6970b-800wi" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/6a0133f1fdf2a0970b0147e26d5ae6970b-800wi.jpg?w=273&#038;h=300" alt="" width="273" height="300" /></a>The relationship is still young, but I think this time it&#8217;s going to stick.  The difference&#8230;people to run with.  Anyone who runs knows the hardest part of doing it is getting your shoes on and heading out the door.  Or heading to the gym after a long day of class.  The good news is that my teammates are law students as well, same busy schedule, same list of excuses, but this time, I&#8217;m not letting it get in the way.  They&#8217;re not, so why should I. I love that after a busy day, instead of going home to bury myself in books, I run.  And I can&#8217;t tell you what a difference it makes.  I didn&#8217;t run because I didn&#8217;t think I had the time, but running has made me so much more productive.  Who would&#8217;ve thought <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The other fun thing about this race is that 1) it will be my first run in Cincinnati, and 2) I&#8217;m going to actually try to race it.  Since getting back into running, I&#8217;ve always trained to simply finish and run farther than I had before.  But this time, instead of my goal being to just make it to the finish line, I want to really see what these legs of mine can do.  I want to break my time goal, not a distance goal this time.  And even that change of pace and change of focus is invigorating.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/tumblr_lp55fqgmww1qh7yo9o1_500.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1150" title="tumblr_lp55fqgmWW1qh7yo9o1_500" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/tumblr_lp55fqgmww1qh7yo9o1_500.jpg?w=300&#038;h=300" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>I&#8217;m starting slowly, building my base, and trying to follow my own advice when it comes to adding in cross training and yoga.  And in the meantime, I am falling in love with running again.  I love the point in your run when you suddenly fall into your stride, I love the refuge running brings, the time to think and even relax as your legs carry you.  And this time, I love the camaraderie, pulling each other along for just a few more minutes than we thought we could go, and I love the change of pace.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I missed running and being in shape, but somehow forgot that the only way to change that is to just get out there.  Instead of complaining that I didn&#8217;t have the time, I just had to make it.  We make time for the things we really care about right? I&#8217;m so glad I made time for this, I&#8217;m so thankful for the friends to do it with, and the goal to beat.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Oh and for the new running playlist.  It&#8217;s hard to beat a good running playlist.  And Jay-Z.  Can&#8217;t beat Jay-Z.</p>
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		<title>Engagement Pictures YEAH!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 09:34:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Life is an endless struggle full of frustrations and challenges, but eventually you find a hair stylist you like.&#8221;  ~Author Unknown I&#8217;ve made a huge mistake. I&#8217;ve never been one to cry in my room after a bad haircut, or a bad color. Hair is hair.  It will grow back.  Don&#8217;t like the color, eh, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1124&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Life is an endless struggle full of frustrations and challenges, but eventually you find a hair stylist you like.&#8221;  ~Author Unknown</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve made a huge mistake.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve never been one to cry in my room after a bad haircut, or a bad color. Hair is hair.  It will grow back.  Don&#8217;t like the color, eh, you can live with it for 8 weeks.  And truth be told, I&#8217;ve never really had a BAD experience.  Well&#8230;except when I was in the 4th grade and Dad took me to get my haircut.  It was basically a bowl cut, and it wasn&#8217;t pretty.  But even then I didn&#8217;t cry, although I&#8217;m pretty sure my mom did.</p>
<p>Well, wouldn&#8217;t you know it, 4 days before our engagement pictures in Nashville with the beautiful and talented <a href="http://kristineneeley.com/" target="_blank">Kristine Neeley</a>, I got my first bad color.  Normally, this wouldn&#8217;t bother me.  Like I said, hair is hair.  But, I&#8217;m a little nervous that people will look at the engagement pictures and say, &#8220;Well that&#8217;s odd, who is that girl The Boy is dating?&#8221;</p>
<p>It all started out so innocently, and with a conversation I&#8217;m sure many other women (and possibly men) have around this time of year.  There you are, sitting in the chair, wearing that ridiculous smock that reminds you of the bibs you had when you were a toddler, and the stylist asks, &#8220;So what are we doing today?&#8221;  And that&#8217;s where it gets tricky.  &#8221;Well,&#8221; you say.  &#8221;I think I&#8217;d like to go a little darker.&#8221;  It&#8217;s fall right, time to trade in the beachy blonde for a warm chocolate brown.</p>
<p>Maybe it is the moving around a lot, because you can&#8217;t really get used to having one person doing your hair, but I&#8217;ve learned to just trust the stylist.  I&#8217;ll normally say a little bit about what I&#8217;d like and then just let them work their magic.  However, this time, being that it was a couple days before the engagement session, I wanted to be extra careful.  I brought a picture.  And not a celebrity picture, you know the kind, when someone brings in a picture of Jennifer Aniston or Rhianna if you&#8217;re bold, and wants their hair to look just like theirs.  It was a picture of me, from when I really loved how my hair was done.</p>
<p>One thing you learn in law school is to be to the point, short, concise and say no more than you need too.  That just confuses people.  But even with my short and sweet request, complete with Exhibit A, there must have been a miscommunication.</p>
<p>I gave her:</p>
<div id="attachment_1125" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 163px"><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/jacklyn.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1125" title="Jacklyn" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/jacklyn.jpg?w=153&#038;h=300" alt="" width="153" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Exhibit A</p></div>
<p>And after being cut, colored, and washed&#8230;I came out looking like this:</p>
<div id="attachment_1126" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/300-sweetheart-lc-061610.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1126" title="300.sweetheart.lc.061610" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/300-sweetheart-lc-061610.jpg?w=490" alt=""   /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Without the tan of course...</p></div>
<p>We&#8217;re talking jet black hair people.  And as much as I like Jersey Shore&#8230;didn&#8217;t really plan on fist pumping in our engagement photos.  Maybe God is punishing me for watching the Jersey Shore.  That makes more sense, I deserve it <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>While I didn&#8217;t cry when I left, I may or may not have had a minor freakout in the car after I kept catching glimpses of myself in the rearview. Suddenly I found myself wondering what outfit would go best with an Ed Hardy hat. The color must have been slowly seeping into my head.</p>
<p>So friends, the bad news is&#8230;I have jet black hair that will not be toned down no matter how many time I scrub and shampoo it.</p>
<p>Good news is&#8230;My hair has never been cleaner, and I&#8217;m considering talking with The Boy to see if we can do a Jersey Shore theme for our photos.  Plus, now you all can expect to see the Jersey Turnpike at the reception.</p>
<p>Happy Friday and fist pumps all around.</p>
<p>Love, your blast in a glass.</p>
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		<title>An Unexpected Visitor, Mace, and an Engagement Ring</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 14:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.&#8221;  ~Nora Ephron, When Harry Met Sally Just a typical Thursday night in July, I had come home from my summer clerkship, gone on a run with the pup, and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1115&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>&#8220;When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.&#8221;  ~Nora Ephron, <em>When Harry Met Sally</em></div>
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<p>Just a typical Thursday night in July, I had come home from my summer clerkship, gone on a run with the pup, and made some dinner.  I was at court with one of the attorneys that day so I couldn&#8217;t wait to kick off my heels, and just relax.</p>
<p>I was planning to go to Nashville the next day after work, so I took the suitcase out of the closet and began the familiar routine of getting everything together.  After all the weekend trips, and the miles traveled, I could practically pack in my sleep.  But, as I was packing, I couldn&#8217;t help but get excited that  this would be one of the last times I&#8217;d make this trip before The Boy moved up to Cincy.</p>
<p>I just finished packing when one of my dearest friends from law school called saying she wanted to get together.  She had been in Africa all summer for her internship, and I could not wait to see her!  I hung up the phone and decided that I should probably pull myself together and get out of my old high school basketball shorts and my favorite t-shirt.  I knew she&#8217;d thank me <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>While I was getting ready, The Boy texted me and said he was finishing up dinner with his Dad (who was in Nashville for the week) and would call me in a bit.  I set the phone down and noticed that Caesar the Wonder Dog wasn&#8217;t sitting outside of the bathroom like he normally does when I get ready.  I looked around the apartment to make sure he wasn&#8217;t getting into trouble, and found him sitting right in front of the door with his head cocked to one side.  What a strange little dog.</p>
<p>I went back and continued getting ready, and was trying to figure out what to wear when I heard Caesar start barking.  At this point it was about 9pm, I wasn&#8217;t expecting anyone,  so I just assumed he was barking at the neighbors that had just moved in across the hall. I didn&#8217;t think much of it and went to find something to wear.  But then I heard a knock at <em>my</em> door&#8230;</p>
<p>OK, so again, it&#8217;s around 9pm.  I wasn&#8217;t expecting anyone and now I was a little unsure of what was going on.  I went to my room, and grabbed my phone and my keys (with my pepper spray compliments of The Boy&#8217;s Dad, since I go to school in downtown Cincy).  Looking back, I&#8217;m not real sure why it didn&#8217;t cross my mind to just not open the door if I didn&#8217;t know the person.  Instead I guess I was planning on opening it and macing them?!</p>
<div id="attachment_1120" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/dsc02381.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1120" title="DSC02381" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/10/dsc02381.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Yes, I&#039;m marrying him even though he&#039;s a Bengals fan. We all have flaws <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></div>
<p>I went to the door and looked to see who it was.  Through the peep hole, I saw The Boy.  Wait&#8230;what?!?  I could not figure out why he was here.  I was going to Nashville the next day. He just texted me saying he was in Nashville with his dad&#8230;</p>
<p>Needless to say, I was at this point thoroughly confused, and I&#8217;m pretty sure I blacked out for a bit, ha. I slowly opened the door, paying no attention to the fact that I had just released the wild beast who was now jumping all over The Boy because he was so excited to see him.</p>
<p>&#8220;What are you doing here?!&#8221; I asked, still in my basketball shorts and ratty T-shirt.</p>
<p>He then got down on one knee, as he was trying to palm Caesar to keep him out of the way, and asked me to marry him.  Cue second blackout of the night.</p>
<p>I started smiling, and laughing excitedly and The Boy said that I asked, &#8220;Are you serious?!&#8221; about 4 or 5 times.  HA. I&#8217;m a little slow on the pick up some times apparently <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And I of course said yes!</p>
<p>I gave him a huge hug, and could not stop smiling.  I couldn&#8217;t believe it.  I was completely surprised!  He&#8217;s way too good at surprises.  If I had to propose, I wouldn&#8217;t have been able to keep my  big mouth shut.</p>
<p>I finally put my keys and phone down (he had no idea I was about to mace him, ha), and looked at him and said, &#8220;But I&#8217;m all packed for Nashville.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Jack, we can go to Nashville this weekend if you want,&#8221; he said.  Which made us both start laughing.</p>
<p>I started asking questions about when he knew, how he planned it, etc. and then it dawned on me I hadn&#8217;t even looked at the ring?!</p>
<p>When I asked if I could see the ring, he laughed and said, &#8220;Of course you can, it&#8217;s yours you know.&#8221;</p>
<p>Come to find out, he had known for awhile that he wanted to ask me to marry him but waited to ask until he could go to Atlanta to ask my parents, and had gotten the ring, all without me knowing a single thing.  It meant so much to me that he took the time to talk with my parents and the ring was absolutely gorgeous.  I mean, I would&#8217;ve married him if he gave me a paperclip people, but The Boy does good work.  And it is so special since he picked it out.  Boy&#8217;s got taste.  He&#8217;s a keeper.</p>
<p>I texted my friend, who was at this point probably wondering what had happened to me, and we headed to meet her.  I ran into the place she was at where he boyfriend (now fiance) told me she had just gone to the bathroom.  I ran in, and The Boy still makes fun of me for the girlish shrieks he heard from the bathroom when we both saw each other.  He said everyone in the place turned to look in our direction.  Ha.</p>
<p>I lived out of my suitcase that weekend, but I didn&#8217;t mind one bit.</p>
<p>In the months since, The Boy has moved up to Cincy, we&#8217;ve both started school, and tried to work on wedding planning in between.  We&#8217;re still figuring out catering, the honeymoon destination and colors, but I do know that one year from today, I get to marry my best friend. October 13, 2012 can&#8217;t come soon enough.</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t be a Stranger</title>
		<link>http://jayewalking.com/2011/10/07/dont-be-a-stranger/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 09:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As anyone in law school knows, and anyone who is thinking about law school will find out, fall of your 2L year feels like a tornado. A cyclone of class, interviews, applications, and job hunting. We are merely two days away from fall break and I already feel like I have a full semester behind [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1104&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>As anyone in law school knows, and anyone who is thinking about law school will find out, fall of your 2L year feels like a tornado. A cyclone of class, interviews, applications, and job hunting. We are merely two days away from fall break and I already feel like I have a full semester behind me.</p>
<p>In the midst of this storm, you are preparing for interviews, updating your resume and combing your writing samples for mistakes. You get to know your resume like the back of your hand, and are ready to answer any question that might come your way. Let&#8217;s just put it this way&#8230;you definitely want to be candid, but you don&#8217;t want to be surprised in an interview.</p>
<p>This is why it was odd that while I was going through the interview process this fall, I suddenly found myself going off script.</p>
<p>I was sitting in an interview one Friday afternoon when I was asked about my previous summer experience. Softball right. OK. I told them about my writing, about going to court with the attorneys, and the special projects I was a part of. But then, I was asked, &#8220;What was the most important thing you learned from that experience.&#8221;</p>
<p>Before I could think about it, I said, &#8220;How to see people.&#8221; Immediately, in my head, I panicked. What was I saying?! <em>How to see people</em>, come on. That&#8217;s not a concrete answer. They are probably wondering what&#8217;s wrong with me. Not surprisingly, I was asked to explain.</p>
<p>Click <a href="http://blogs.targetx.com/uclaw/JacklynJohnston/" target="_blank">here</a> to read the rest.</p>
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		<title>Old Haunts and New Favorites</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 11:12:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow.” ~ Lin Yutang To be honest, I&#8217;m not really sure where my old, familiar pillow is at this point in time.  Recently, I feel like my bags are constantly packed and ready by the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1086&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“No one realizes how beautiful it is to travel until he comes home and rests his head on his old, familiar pillow.” ~ Lin Yutang</p>
<p>To be honest, I&#8217;m not really sure where my old, familiar pillow is at this point in time.  Recently, I feel like my bags are constantly packed and ready by the door.   However, I have realized the beauty in not only traveling and finding new places, but also seeing old places, with new eyes.</p>
<p>The Boy and I have been having a blast together exploring his hometown here in Cinci and seeking out new favorites when I&#8217;m in Nashville amidst visiting our go-to&#8217;s.  This past weekend in Nashville was no different.</p>
<p>After a morning run and taking Caesar to his yearly vet appointment (always an adventure) we decided to head to The Flying Saucer, one of our favorite spots, to try a new Dogfish Head they had in.</p>
<p><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/1294087686-cooperslogocopy.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1087" title="1294087686-cooperslogocopy" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/1294087686-cooperslogocopy.png?w=300&#038;h=100" alt="" width="300" height="100" /></a>Then it was off to East Nashville.  I was really excited to head across the river to try some new spots and hopefully visit one of my favorite Mexican restaurants in Nashville.</p>
<p>One of the places on our list to try was <a href="http://www.coopersonporter.com/" target="_blank">Cooper&#8217;s on Porter</a>, a place we heard about at the East Nashville Beer Festival this Spring.  We ended up getting there a little earlier than the 4pm open time which was fine by me because that meant there was time for a late lunch at <a href="http://www.rosepepper.com/" target="_blank">Rosepepper</a>.  Perfect planning in my book!</p>
<p>After a steamed vegetable quesadilla and one of the best margs in town, we ended up walking around my old stomping ground for a bit and then headed back to Porter to check out Cooper&#8217;s.</p>
<p>We heard about Cooper&#8217;s as it relates to beer but it turns out as we learned from the bartender, owner and chef Cooper Brunk, places much of the emphasis on food.  However, since we had already taken care of the food side of things, we just decided to check out the beer.  They have 25 rotating taps and plenty more in bottles and cans.  Although you won&#8217;t find anything crazy on tap at Cooper&#8217;s, what they do offer is a killer line up of solid craft brews including Schlafly, Brooklyn, Sierra Nevada, New Belgium, and of course, local favorites like Blackstone and Yazoo.  The best part, at least in this law student&#8217;s book, is that every Tuesday-Saturday from 4-7pm, all drafts are only $3.</p>
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<p>After that we decided to check out another new kid on the block,<a href="http://jenisicecreams.com/" target="_blank"> Jeni&#8217;s Splendid Ice Cream</a>.  This just might be one of my new favorite places. This should not surprise you since I&#8217;m pretty sure ice cream was my first solid food as a child.</p>
<p>But this is like no other ice cream you&#8217;ve ever tasted before.  I mean, come on.  Check out this <a href="http://jenisicecreams.com/categories/Flavors/" target="_blank">flavor list</a>.  Cherry Lambic Sorbet, Queen City Cayenne, Brown Butter Almond Brittle and what I ended up going with: Salty Caramel.  Salty and Sweet.  Again, this should not surprise you seeing as I probably single handedly bought out all of Starbucks Salted Hot Chocolate drinks while they were available this past winter.  The Starbucks that I consumed during finals was just downright frightening.</p>
<p>Anyway, the Boy tried the Cherry Lambic Sorbet and although I tend to be very skeptical when it comes to sorbet&#8230;that too was delicious!  We decided to get two pints to-go and I&#8217;m sure they will not be our last this summer.</p>
<p>The great thing is that although they only have shops in Northern Ohio and now Nashville, you don&#8217;t have to go there to get Jeni&#8217;s truly splendid ice cream.  Luckily, you can find them in Whole Foods, Jungle Jims and other markets <a href="http://www.jenisicecreams.com/pages/Retail-Partners.html" target="_blank">across the US</a>.  You have to try this stuff.  I promise, you&#8217;ll thank me later.</p>
<p>Even though, like all other weekend trips, my time in Nashville seemed too short&#8230;it was a blast.  It was the first trip where I felt like I had shaken off law school for the summer and didn&#8217;t have to worry about deadlines, briefs, or homework to be done when I got back.  I enjoyed and loved every minute of it.  After a jam packed 1L year, the summer is a welcome break and the relaxation it brings is intoxicating.</p>
<p>To me, there&#8217;s just something about summer that whispers adventure.  It&#8217;s time to go see things you&#8217;ve been wanting to all winter long, it&#8217;s reading those books that your friends can&#8217;t stop talking about while lounging on the porch enjoying a warm summer night.  It&#8217;s catching up with old friends over delicious food and relaxing with family.  It&#8217;s indulging in your old favorites while finding the time to seek out new ones.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s to ice cream, a cheap pint of beer, good company, lazy summer nights, and adventures, both new and old.</p>
<p>What will you be doing this summer?  What&#8217;s your adventure? Where are some places you want to go and are they old favorites or new?</p>
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		<title>Going Back Down South Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 12:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; This song makes my heart happy.  Oh Nashville how I&#8217;ve missed you. Going back down South for the weekend. Happy Friday!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1079&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>This song makes my heart happy.  Oh Nashville how I&#8217;ve missed you.</p>
<p>Going back down South for the weekend.</p>
<p>Happy Friday!</p>
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		<title>Beer on a Budget- Schlafly APA</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jun 2011 06:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Milk is for babies.  When you grow up you have to drink beer.&#8221; ~ Arnold Schwarzenegger So here is the deal my friends, there is nothing better on a summer Friday afternoon, than coming home, kicking back on the porch and having a nice cold beer. I haven&#8217;t blogged about it much, but myself and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1052&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Milk is for babies.  When you grow up you have to drink beer.&#8221; ~ Arnold Schwarzenegger</p>
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<p>So here is the deal my friends, there is nothing better on a summer Friday afternoon, than coming home, kicking back on the porch and having a nice cold beer.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t blogged about it much, but myself and the Boy in the past year or so have really enjoyed learning about and tasting craft beer.  We&#8217;ve tried more styles and more beers than we can count, the Boy has actually started brewing, and it&#8217;s become one of our favorite games to hunt down beers we haven&#8217;t had and give them a spin.</p>
<p>All of that said, craft beer is delicious but it can be expensive.  Hence, Beer on a Budget.  Now that I am in law school and living off of money that is not mine, I haven&#8217;t really been allowing myself to indulge in my favorites.  During school, with all the traveling, it made sense, but this summer I thought it would be fun to allow myself to once a week, hunt down the sales on craft beer and introduce the flavor of the week.</p>
<p>I feel like most people just pick up what they see in the grocery store, because it&#8217;s cheap and they know what they&#8217;re getting, which is exactly what I used to do. With Beer on a Budget, I hope to introduce you to new breweries, new styles, and new favorites, all without breaking the bank.  It&#8217;s a beer you can afford to grab a six pack of, invite friends over and savor those summer nights with.</p>
<p>The Boy is the real expert on craft beer, and although I don&#8217;t know as much yet, I have absolutely loved learning about it with him.  The craft beer industry is as interesting and colorful as the beers they create.  So while introducing you to what&#8217;s in my frosted glass on a given week, I hope to learn along with you.  And hopefully, those who are much better versed in the craft beer industry will chime in and give their take.  So, without further ado, week 1 of Beer on a Budget, featuring <a href="http://www.schlafly.com/" target="_blank">Schlafly</a> APA.</p>
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<p>The first time I had Schlafly APA was at one of my favorite watering holes in Nashville, <a href="http://12southtaproom.com/" target="_blank">12th South Taproom</a>.  It was on draft and it was love at first sip.</p>
<p>It was not long before that I was first introduced to Bell&#8217;s Hopslam, a double IPA that was sweet as honey and just seemed to melt in your mouth.  The Boy and I got it by the case because we quickly learned that people traveled across state lines every winter when this delicacy came out to stock up.  After tasting it, I knew why.  Since having Hopslam though, I hadn&#8217;t had anything that resembled that delicate citrus or floral flavor, until I was introduced to Schlafly APA.</p>
<p>As I said, I am not an expert, but to me, this year-round American Pale Ale from St. Louis seemed to be my solution for the spring, summer and fall while Hopslam was not on the shelves.  Although Hopslam is a Double India Pale Ale and Schlafly is an American Pale Ale, even untrained tastebuds like mine were drawn to the subtle similarities in both.  There was something I liked there.</p>
<p>A couple of weeks later however, when I ordered a bottle of Schlafly APA somewhere else and  I was greeted with a much more bitter taste. That was not what I remembered.  I was so disappointed.  Since, I have been a bit skittish about purchasing it.</p>
<p>Last Friday however, on my way home from work, I stopped at <a href="http://www.corknbottle.com/" target="_blank">Cork &#8216;n Bottle</a>, one of my favorite places to find good beer here on my side of the river.  They have amazing specials and I had seen them tweet earlier that Schlafly 6-packs were on sale for $6.99.  You can&#8217;t beat that for craft beer people.  So of course I went over.  I had intended to try a different style but the APA was staring me in the face and heck, I&#8217;m all for second chances.  Remembering a conversation I had with the Boy, I decided to see if I could find the bottled by date to see how fresh it is.  Yes, I like you, didn&#8217;t know that mattered for beer but turns out it does.  Oh the things I&#8217;m learning!</p>
<p>Cork &#8216;n Bottle receives a fresh shipment of Schlafly weekly and I was assured it was one of the freshest beers on their shelves, as was witnessed by the bottling date.</p>
<p>As soon as I took it home and popped open the bottle, I knew this was the beer I remembered from the porch of 12th South.  It was fresh, citrusy, hoppy, and had just the right amount of bitterness.  This was just what I had wanted and at a bargain price!  At 5.9%, this is the perfect beer for those summer nights with friends, cookouts and neighborhood parties in the park.</p>
<p>As my ancestors in Italy would say, Cin-Cin, or to your health!  And your wallet as well in this instance!</p>
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<p>What I&#8217;ve learned about American Pale Ale (APA):</p>
<p>Many consider APA&#8217;s the bolder and hoppier American cousin of traditional English Pale Ales.  APA, a style that was pioneered by the likes of Sierra Nevada, is normally crisper and generally more hoppy than the typical India Pale Ale (IPA) and has a distinct American hop character.</p>
<p>Schlafly APA for example is dry hopped with whole cone American hops including Cascade, Chinook and Athanum hops.  Dry hopping, as I&#8217;m learning, is a process where hops are added after fermentation and are left to soak, in Schlafly&#8217;s case, for 7 days.  This significantly increases the hop character of both the aroma and flavor of the beer without increasing the bitterness.</p>
<p>This process, used by both Schlafly and Bells, adds that delicate floral and citrusy taste that I love.  When buying an APA, I would suggest looking at the bottled date because in this case, the fresher the better!</p>
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		<title>An Officer, a Lawyer&#8230;Dad</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 15:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[He didn&#8217;t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.  ~Clarence Budington Kelland Last weekend, the Boy came to town and it was such a great weekend.  Well, more than a weekend.  He came in Tuesday night, we went on a roadtrip to Chicago to see family, a great [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1050&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He didn&#8217;t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.  ~Clarence Budington Kelland</p>
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<p>Last weekend, the Boy came to town and it was such a great weekend.  Well, more than a weekend.  He came in Tuesday night, we went on a roadtrip to Chicago to see family, a great concert, and best of all was that he didn&#8217;t have to go home the very next day.</p>
<p>Friday afternoon, when I got back from my internship, the Boy and his family met me at my apartment and we made our way up to his family&#8217;s house for the weekend.  I know I&#8217;ve mentioned it before but I count it as such a blessing that I not only have met an amazing man but bonus&#8230;his family is fantastic and I love them to pieces.</p>
<p>We had a blast with them this past weekend.  We hung out, laughed, lounged on the porch, went to the farmers market&#8230;but one of the coolest things to me was an event we went to Saturday night&#8230;</p>
<p>You see, Saturday night, we went to a benefit at the fairgrounds for Sargent Dulle, a Warren County officer who was killed in the line of duty.  It was one of those events where you know you should be sad but you simply can&#8217;t because you look around and are amazed at the immense and intense outpouring of love and support from everyone in the room.</p>
<p>It was at the fairgrounds, and it was a beautiful night. Officers and their families, firefighters, and hundreds from the community came to show their support.  It was truly beautiful to see a community come together.</p>
<p>What was really interesting for me was to watch the Boy&#8217;s family.  The Boy&#8217;s dad is on the force and has been for a number of years in many capacities.  When we walked in, familiar faces came up to shake his hand and marvel at how his Boy had grown, because you see they remember when he was a little boy playing around the office and coming to see dad.  There were smiles, hugs, new stories to be shared, and old stories to be remembered.</p>
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<p>As all of this was going on around me, I kept thinking about how the Boy&#8217;s dad would always say that he&#8217;s always wanted better for his boys.  He wants them to go on to do better and be better than what he was.  And I think all parents want that for their kids.</p>
<p>But you see, as I was standing there watching what was going on around me, and thinking about all the things I&#8217;ve learned from and about my dad, I&#8217;m not sure if there is better success.</p>
<p>These men set the bar high.  Success, as I am beginning to understand it from these men, is measured in relationships.  It is measured in experience and in giving of yourself.</p>
<p>When I think of dad I think of Haagen-Dazs ice cream as likely one of my first solid foods. I think of rolling in the leaves at Jonquil and sitting in his grip by the window looking at the stars and listening to Pirates games.  I think of laughing till my belly hurts, more John Wayne and Jimmy Stewart movies than I could ever try to remember and drawing on legal pads in his office.  I think of Bruce Springsteen music being played in the basement and rocking me to sleep while he sang Brown Eyed Girl.  I think of card games, ok, him beating me at card games, late night road trips to Michigan and him falling asleep with a book in his hands.</p>
<p>But beyond those memories, I think of the example he&#8217;s set.  Always forgive.  Never be to proud to say you&#8217;re sorry.  Love unconditionally.  Be generous and help whoever comes your way.  Listen. Be patient.  Always be curious and never stop learning. Sometimes what needs to be said is not what is easiest to be heard.  Say your please and thank you&#8217;s.  Believe in and support those around you. Family comes first.  Always work hard and do your best.  And find your passion.</p>
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<p>The thing is, your parents always want you to do better than they did. But the older I get and the more I learn about and from my parents, in this case my dad, the more I am so proud to be their daughter and think that if I could simply be half the amazing person my dad is&#8230;I will have done alright!</p>
<p>I love you dad.  Thank you for leading by example, for always loving me and supporting me no matter what. Thank you for encouraging me to be the best person I can.</p>
<p>Dad, you are my hero and I am so glad you are in my life.  Thank you for your <a href="http://jayewalking.com/tag/dad/" target="_blank">wisdom</a>, and thank you for being the best example a girl can have of a loving man, father and husband.</p>
<p>Happy Father&#8217;s Day!</p>
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		<title>Diary of a Law Student</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacklyn Johnston</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Do you think she woke up one morning and said: I think I&#8217;ll go to law school today.&#8221; ~Professor Callahan I know. I just can&#8217;t help myself. I can&#8217;t stay away from the Legally Blonde quotes when I&#8217;m talking about law school. Forgive me. But I have some big news so I&#8217;m excited and when [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=jayewalking.com&#038;blog=7435638&#038;post=1032&#038;subd=jayemarie&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Do you think she woke up one morning and said: I think I&#8217;ll go to law school today.&#8221; ~Professor Callahan</p>
<p><a href="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/diary.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1033" title="diary" src="http://jayemarie.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/diary.jpg?w=300&#038;h=200" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>I know.</p>
<p>I just can&#8217;t help myself.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t stay away from the Legally Blonde quotes when I&#8217;m talking about law school.</p>
<p>Forgive me.</p>
<p>But I have some big news so I&#8217;m excited and when I get excited I tend to want to laugh&#8230;</p>
<p>I know, it&#8217;s weird.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s even worse is that that is my reaction when something really awful happens.  I&#8217;m working on it.</p>
<p>But again, forgive me.</p>
<p>Ok, so the big news&#8230;</p>
<p>Remember that time when I decided to quit my job and go to <a href="http://jayewalking.com/2010/05/11/i-have-a-confession-to-make/" target="_blank">law school</a>, all the <a href="http://jayewalking.com/2010/07/12/plan-b/" target="_blank">crazy stuff </a>that happened along the way and then how everything just <a href="http://jayewalking.com/2010/10/04/on-procrastination-planning-and-patience/" target="_blank">fell in place</a>, even if it was at the last minute?</p>
<p>Then fast forward to right now, where I am in my second semester of my 1L year and although it is crazy and hectic, I am absolutely <a href="http://jayewalking.com/2010/10/13/things-ive-learned-in-law-school/" target="_blank">loving it</a>!</p>
<p>Well I have been given an amazing opportunity to be one of the law students that posts on the <a href="http://blogs.targetx.com/uclaw/JacklynJohnston/" target="_blank">law school&#8217;s blog</a> and I couldn&#8217;t be more excited!</p>
<p>Of course I&#8217;m really looking forward to writing about all the crazy things that go on in law school.  But more than that, as someone who benefited so much from all of you who read who are in the legal profession or in law school, and have encouraged me along the way, I want to pay it forward.</p>
<p>I love all the funny stories you all have shared with me to make me feel comfortable, the advice to steer me in the right direction and how everyone, no matter what school you went to, had THAT kid in your class.  But more than that, it&#8217;s the community and like I said, I want to pay it forward to those who are going through the process I did recently.</p>
<p>Some of it will be informative and informational, but for my first law school blog&#8230;I will write about my first day of law school where you are terrified of your own name!</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love for you to check it out and let me know what you think.</p>
<p>Oh, and don&#8217;t be freaked out by the long hair.</p>
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